Poem For My Dead Cat & Musing and Tribute To A Cat Legend
"Good bye to this form sweet Mitz.
Hello to a new world of magic and mystery.
Blessings on your new journey.
Until we meet again.
We will always recognize each other eventually.
Always changing, ever evolving, always expanding.
All our love." - Beckie and Toby Hemmerling - your forever buddies
My Dead Cat is Off Topic - I know....
I know I run a recipe site and this is off topic but I don't care :). Our cat died and this is my tribute to her because she was a legend.
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Goodbye For Now Ms. Pretty
Ms. Pretty - DBA (doing business as): Daisy Mae, Mietze Katze, Mitza, Mellie, Tiga, Mietze Legend, Mellie 4 Legs, Mellie Marsh Cat, Mellie Night Eyes, The Mitz

How hard it's been to say goodbye to our buddy and shadow for the last 18 years. Alas, your death teaches us that nothing stays the same.

We took care of you the best we could. You lived all these wild places and experienced all our ups and downs.

And you didn't care about anything but being wild, free, and fed. Well, you downright demanded everything but nothing at the same time.

I barely remember life without you in it. You have been with us our entire marriage. You were the child when we didn't have kids. You were the reason we didn't go on vacations in the end.

Thank you For Everything Sweet Mietze Cat
Thank you for taking care of us and blessing us with your rascalness and curiosity and company for 17 + years. We have sure loved you a long time with all of our hearts, sweet legend.

There were many days that you laid with us when we were sick or comforted us when we were sad. There were many days that you provided endless entertainment and mystery. Mostly, you were our family and best friend.

Thank you for hanging out so long. You could have died from mischief or health scares many times and you always showed us what survival and fight look like. You were a great teacher.

Resisting Goodbyes To Our Cat
But what a way to blow it out and die like you did. The stroke took your movement and function but it did not take your will to live. And for that, I have tears of sadness and joy.

And I play out your last moments... BAH! Wishing there could be one last good breath, one last cuddle and snuggle with all your wits. One last breathing pet with your mind and function straight.

But I hear you - a little. I felt you breathing as you laid invisible on the bed by my head. I heard paw paws walking to the litter box. I saw your shadow by the door but it was just a kettlebell or a pair of shoes in the middle of the night.

I heard you grooming yourself, although it could have just been the oysters popping in the marsh or the wind.

Letting Go
What a hole your death has left in our lives. Thank you for all the living magic. Safe and fun adventures and travels. All of your molecules in the air, with God, in the Universe.

I breathe you in darling, I try to breathe you out. I breathe in life and breathe out death. I breathe in death and breath out life. Thank you little fierce kitty cat.






What a beautiful, loving tribute to a true and loyal friend! I’m so sorry for the physical losss of your four-legged family member, they are the very definition of love. They love us despite our foibles, quirks, or downfalls (as long as we feed them 🙃). She will find ways to continue your connection and to remind you of her love every time you need it. Sending vibes for comfort and love to your (and Toby’s) heart from mine.
Thank you so much Trish and so well said. There are so many layers to grief, aren't there. We are missing her so, but are feeling and are grateful for your vibes and love <3